This column first appeared in the February 9, 2020 PRINT edition of The Vindicator and Tribune-Chronicle newspapers:

It’s a tale as old as, well, America.

Democrats and Republicans rarely agree on anything, and it’s newsworthy when they do.

Today, that agreement is overwhelming bipartisan distrust of social media.

This distrust may come as some surprise to leaders at Facebook and other social media companies. They claim to have implemented new security and privacy measures, and tried to stop fake news over the last few years.

They did this, in part, regain our trust and win back daily active users.

A new study from the Pew Research Center looked at this lack of trust in social media. A large majority of Americans are familiar with the major social platforms (e.g., Facebook) and many say they still use social media to find political news, even if they don’t trust them.

The study was conducted as part of Pew’s ongoing Election News Pathways project, which examines our news habits, our attitudes about what we hear and perceive, and what we think we know about the 2020 election.

“Indeed, Facebook, the most widely used of the six social media sites examined when it comes to getting political and election news, is distrusted by about six in 10 U.S. adults,” said report authors Mark Jurkowitz and Amy Mitchell.

Nearly half said they distrust Twitter, and four in 10 said they skeptical of Instagram.

Some Americans who said they get their news through social media are equally reliant on it.

“Overall, 18 percent of U.S. adults cite social media as the ‘most common’ way they access political news — relying on it more than other platforms such as TV, print, radio or news websites and apps,” Jurkowitz and Mitchell said.

Adults who rely mostly on social media for political news also had more trust than others in platforms like Facebook and Twitter. They continue to use social media as a place to get political news. They’re less concerned about the spread of fake news.

Video-sharing site YouTube was not immune.

“YouTube is also distrusted by greater portions of each party than trusted,” Jurkowitz and Mitchell said. About 15 percent of Republicans and 19 percent of Democrats say they trust it.

“Republicans and Democrats also largely agree about LinkedIn and Reddit, where distrust exceeds trust in both parties by at least a two-to-one ratio.”

Coincidentally, when Pew researchers asked voters about their trust of specific platforms, a large percentage said they hadn’t even heard of some companies.

For example, 27 percent were unfamiliar with LinkedIn and nearly 40 percent didn’t know about Reddit.

Unfamiliarity wasn’t a problem for all platforms.

“Of the six social media sites examined in this study, most are known to a large majority of Americans,” Jurkowitz and Mitchell said. “About nine in 10 U.S. adults say they have heard of’ Facebook, YouTube, Twitter and Instagram.”

Don’t be so quick to equate this distrust of social media with “other” media. When it comes to trust in specific news sources, the chasm between the parties is as wide as their trust of President Trump (e.g., CNN vs. Fox News).

Still, anyone who has broken trust with another person knows it takes time to repair.

Social media are no different.

Although Facebook and others have tried to eliminate fake news, improve security and protect users, they clearly have a long way to go before they earn back our trust when it comes to politics and news.

This column first appeared in the February 2, 2020 PRINT edition of The Vindicator and Tribune-Chronicle newspapers:

It might be depressing to think about what our dying words or wishes will be, but that’s where my head is right now.

I didn’t know legendary basketball star Kobe Bryant. I wasn’t a huge fan, but I respected his accomplishments and I was always impressed with stories of his financial success post-basketball.

The day before his death, Bryant was passed on the NBA’s all-time scoring list by Lebron James. Bryant took to Twitter to react to James’ achievement:

“Continuing to move the game forward @KingJames. Much respect my brother” followed by the hashtag #33644 to represent the number of points it took James to pass Bryant.

Last words from celebrities and other personalities can be uplifting, but some are peculiar, and others are disputed for authenticity.

Did so-and-so really say that?

Unless we are there, we’ll never know for sure.

We rely on witnesses to share last words. One can only assume that some have been altered to preserve some dignity for the deceased.

Most last words make complete sense to those that hear them, especially if you know something about the person who spoke them.

For example, Nostradamus reportedly made one final prediction with his last words, “Tomorrow, at sunrise, I shall no longer be here.”

Other obvious last words come from death row, often filled with apology and regret. Some are more bit more sarcastic.

When asked if he had any final requests, convicted murderer James W. Rodgers said, “Bring me a bullet-proof vest” before being shot to death by a firing squad.

On a more spiritual note, some last words make us wonder what that person might be sensing or wondering as they pass on. According to his sister, Steve Jobs’ last words were, “Oh, wow. Oh, wow. Oh, wow.”

But what if no one is there to hear them? What if no one reports those words?

What’s probably most true about our last words is that no one will remember the last thing we say.

When my dad passed away 10 years ago, I wasn’t there. So I asked family members if they heard the last thing he said. “I think it was, ‘Get me some tea,'” my mother reported.

This made me smile because my father was obsessed with iced tea. Did he really say that, or did my mother tell me this because she knew I would smile?

The last thing I remember my father saying was, “I love you, too” as I left him for the last time at a nursing home.

The beautiful thing about social media is that we can use it for this very purpose — to capture our thoughts, inspirations and reflections on the world around us. We can use Twitter and other platforms to uplift and praise the accomplishments of those around us.

We can use it to share our love of life.